Ever wondered what makes a godly man? Is it his steadfast faith, his unwavering action, or the disciplined habits he builds in displaying God’s glory? Imagine a tree standing firm in a storm, deeply rooted and unshaken. That’s the kind of discipline explored in Disciplines of a Godly Man by R. Kent Hughes. This article will draw from the timeless wisdom of the book to unpack the core principles of discipline and give practical insights and spiritual guidance to help you thrive as a man of God.
As the Disciplines of a Godly Man showed, discipline is not a matter of self-control but of a will set on godliness. It’s a muscle that develops by exercise. For the man of God, it’s the practice of conforming all life-mind, body, and soul to the Word of God. As R. Kent Hughes writes, “No manliness is greater than Christlikeness,” emphasizing that true masculinity is deeply rooted in spiritual discipline.
Core Disciplines for a Godly Man
R. Kent Hughes breaks down discipline into several areas that every man must cultivate:
- Spiritual Discipline: Prayer every day, Bible study, and worship. Hughes insists on the necessity of “scheduling the eternal” to make these practices happen.
Example: Try a Bible Study Plan to keep yourself on track.
- Relational Discipline: This involves leading and serving your family humbly and lovingly. Discipline in relationships is a reflection of Christ’s sacrificial love.
- Personal Discipline: Care for the body through exercise, rest, and self-control. Hughes reminds the reader that stewardship is also of the body.
- Moral Discipline: Protection from lust, greed, and other temptations. As Hughes writes, “Holiness requires relentless vigilance.”
How do you put these principles into practice in everyday life?
- Establish a Morning Routine: Begin each day with prayer, scripture, and reflection. It sets the spiritual tone for the day.
- Set Goals with Accountability: Be it reading the Bible or exercising, share your goals with a trusted friend.
- Create Non-Negotiables: Pinpoint those disciplines that are sacred in your schedule, such as family dinner or Sunday worship.
- Limit Distractions: Practice digital discipline by setting boundaries for screen time.
Prayer and Spiritual Growth
Hughes speaks to the discipline of prayer by addressing the physical posture of prayer, heart attitude in prayer, and what happens when one neglects prayer. He challenges men to be sincere and consistent in their prayers.
In the section on the discipline of the mind, Hughes advocates for the reading of classic Christian literature, urging men to avoid spiritual anorexia by neglecting the wisdom of past saints. He stresses the importance of consuming quality spiritual content to shape a godly mind.
Legalism vs. Discipline
Hughes is quick to point out, very early in the book, that legalism is not what he’s after, but rather god-centered discipline. He defines legalism as self-centered and meritorious, whereas true discipline is motivated by love for God and the desire to please Him.
Much of the book is devoted to the impact of modern culture on men, especially how entertainment and media have emasculated the true concept of manhood. Hughes makes the bold statement that one cannot have a Christian mind if he consumes massive amounts of media, adding that the use of media requires discernment and moderation.
Hughes underlines the disparity between how men and women form friendships and emphasizes the significance of close, godly male companionship. He tackles some fears of today and social dictates that stand against this union, encouraging men in friendships.
conclusion
some days it will be an uphill battle in the rain to keep disciplined. But it is not about never falling, it is about always getting back up, relying on God’s strength to carry you forward. Hughes says, “Failure is never final except when we quit trying.” So if you stumble, lean on God’s grace.
What is inspiring is the way discipline extends beyond personal growth and touches your family, friends, and even your community. A disciplined man is a beacon—someone who shows others the beauty of a life anchored in God. By cultivating habits like prayer, Bible study, and loving service, you grow closer to God but at the same time leave behind a legacy of faith that others can follow.
Start small but stay consistent. Commit to one new discipline today-whether it’s spending ten minutes in prayer each morning or showing more kindness to those around you. These small steps, repeated daily, build an unshakeable foundation. And as your discipline grows, so will your faith, your resilience, and your ability to reflect God’s love in every area of your life.
